#I WAS MINDING MY BUSINESS FREE#

Whatever your wrong way things are, then do confession and Vajrasattva and purify them. Maybe they are the right way and you are the wrong way. Maybe what you thought was better was actually a mistake. Your merit.ĭon't lose it, boasting! Or if that 'better' is not really better, then examine your faults. If you really think you are better than others, you should check carefully: what is that 'better?' If you are really better than them, then good. Anybody can blah! Even Odzer the cat can meow lots!

Then you can see if your way is really solid or not before you start thinking you are a big hero just because you can blah blah blah. If you think you have a wonderful “my way,” then you need to get more educated. Actually, does your “my way” have any foundation? You should check. You might think your own idea is wonderful, and everybody should follow your way. I have a television control but no control over my own mind! That's embarrassing! Like myself, here I have a control for my television. Therefore, we are shameless, pointing the finger at everybody else and ignoring the smell coming from our own butt that we didn't clean nicely. So much complaining-did you control yourself, now you are looking for something else to control? And if you didn't control your own self, your own mind, then wanting to control everybody else, that's embarrassing! You are not qualified! We say, “ They should do this!” “ They should do that!” But what we should do ourselves, we don't know or we ignore it. How many people are in it, top to bottom? Are you going to change them? Can you change even one person, let alone all those hundreds or thousands? Actually, which one can you change? Yourself. Hair is an often talked about topic here, we ask that you redirect hair questions to /r/blackhair and /r/naturalhair (or both).“Your government is giant. When he doesn’t, he distracts himself from pointless things by minding other people’s business.

Men tend to mind their own business when it’s worth thinking about it. It would make them more likeable, for sure.

Otherwise, have fun and enjoy!įriends of /r/Blackladies! (alphabetical) If you don’t hear it with your ears or see it with your eyes, you don’t convey it with your mouth. Answer (1 of 59): Ha Everyone should know the answer to this. Please don’t hesitate to report problematic or offensive posts.

#I WAS MINDING MY BUSINESS FREE#

If these concepts are foreign to you, feel free to peruse some of the sites and articles listed below for a clue:Ĭonsequences of White Privilege in America against People of Colorįor the time being we are asking that all questions/debates about interracial relationships be discussed over in r/interracialdating.Ī Collection of Perspectives & Resources on Race and Moreĩ7 Things White People Can Do for Racial Justice Do not derail, do not concern troll and do not tone police. While everyone is welcome here, fundamental awareness of privilege and intersectionality is expected. We understand that, occasionally, the topic of race will come up in discussion. We are the cool kids and the nerds, the fashionistas and the bohemians, the ratchet and the intellectual.

funny, silly, or irreverent stories and articles.

sex, love, family, friends and relationships.

Anything that you want to discuss or find interesting, including but not limited to: Self-posts and linked posts are both encouraged, as we want to encourage discussion, foster a sense of community, and provide a positive and inclusive space. Wanna talk about how your day went? Go for it! Wanna talk about how your day didn’t go? That’s cool, too. Another way to put it is that I love attending to the business of my mind: the steady stream of thoughts and ideas, the expansive landscapes of imagination. But as I grew up, I started seeing people around me throw all kinds of slurs at me, that I'm 'anti-social' and whatnot. Well, anything really! We’re a broad and varied collective of women, with a plethora of interests and unique voices, and (almost) nothing is off limits. My school teachers often liked me for being a quiet boy minding his own business. If you are new to the community, you should read it before engaging. Rules can be found in the Community Document, which also describes the purpose of this community and how it is conducted. This is a space to chill out and relax! So kick your feet up, and sip a little slower, we got time!

I was minding my business